There is no winner or loser in a marriage. You are on the same team. If you have to win an argument, you have just lost the fight. There is no point in placing blame when conflict arises. The best thing to do is to start looking for the solution. How can we do better vs “You need to do better!” How can we communicate better vs “You need to communicate better!” There will always be one who is stronger in an area than the other. Use those strengths to compliment each other. A marriage takes both of you to be present, willing, and committed to each other and to the covenant you made. The two of you are in the same boat. You will either sail together or sink together. Invest in your marriage like many do for their wedding. It is worth the time, effort, and money. Together forever is a nice phrase, but it can also become your reality. Work together to achieve the forever. With God, all things are possible.