There are so many ways to look at situations in life. As they say, different strokes for different folks. Because we are from different backgrounds, cultures, and economical classes we will always view things differently. So what is my point? Be careful of how you judge what people do when you don’t know anything about them.
A person who has been raised up having nothing could become a hoarder because they don’t ever want to feel lack again. A person who had an abusive parent may grow up to be an abuser based on what they have seen and experienced. They may also avoid confrontation altogether because they don’t want to become an abuser. A person who comes from a family of success and has been pressured to be the best at everything, may become a workaholic always trying to obtain more. They may also become a total failure because they don’t want that kind of pressure in their life.
Start taking the time to get to know people and what drives them to do the things they do. You might learn that there’s more to them than what meets the eye.